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Post by rosered74 on Apr 30, 2014 15:07:46 GMT -5
wow! what an awesome show. it is basically the book but tv version. and norm! wowza! cleans up damn fine and he talks and more than just one sentence lol.
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Post by anitalalouise on Apr 30, 2014 15:35:44 GMT -5
I really liked this. I hope they do it with the Time Bandit too.
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Post by Maribegood on Apr 30, 2014 16:40:33 GMT -5
They did it for the Time Bandit last year. If you go to the Episode board and search "The Legend of the Time Bandit" you will find the thread. It was one week after Season 9 Episode 1.
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Post by sciencer on Apr 30, 2014 18:01:33 GMT -5
I agree, it was great. It gave more insight into the Sig-Edgar dynamic. The usual older-younger brother competition, complicated by 1)Edgar's apparent difficulty in figuring out how to show Sig that he has truly moved beyond his drug use and is now trustworthy and reliable enough for the captain's chair, and 2) Sig's apparent inability to move beyond Edgar's drug use. Each seems to be waiting for the other to move first.
Before blue crab season last year, why didn't Edgar just call Sig and tell him that he wants to learn the process, from filing the necessary paperwork before the season starts and all the other steps that are needed to prepare the boat and crew for the season. And Sig could have called Edgar and asked if he wanted to help go through the process, knowing that Edgar wants to try his hand at being captain. That big blow-out scene on the bridge could have been avoided if one or the other reached out.
Families, especially those that are dealing with an addict, often have great trouble breaking behavior patterns. Sig bringing up that Edgar repeatedly let the boat down while he was using made it clear that that particular point is still quite fresh, no matter how many years Edgar has been a great engineer/deck boss since then.
It's pretty brave of them to be willing to air their dirty laundry like that.
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Post by crabber on Apr 30, 2014 19:03:11 GMT -5
I agree, last night was great. We had seen some of the NW history in the past but this was really interesting. I think there is more to the Sig/Edgar thing then the drug use. Each appears to always wait for the other to make the first move then bitch that they never asked. It almost seems like Sig will never let Edgar forget his past drug use. I not think I have ever seen Norm talk so much !
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Post by anitalalouise on May 1, 2014 15:41:09 GMT -5
Edgar may not be using drugs anymore, but not all of his behaviors have changed. When he was going to fish blue crab he never once called Sig and asked what he needed to do, he just expected that someone else would do it all for him. I love Edgar to bits but I can see exactly why that would drive Sig insane. It's a bad habit and I think if Edgar made the effort Sig would move on.
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Post by sciencer on May 1, 2014 16:34:51 GMT -5
I've always been a fan of Sig, and yes, everyone has their flaws, but it does seem that as far as moving toward the captain's chair, Sig sometimes seems to wait for Edgar to fail. Ex the hernia issue. I doubt that Edgar did that intentionally so he'd be able to go home. Plus Edgar wanted to get it taken care of quickly so he'd be ready for King crab season. I don't know how else it could be handled. Unless Edgar did not initially clearly outline the situation to Sig and by the time Sig got to the NW he was already pissed. The way it was shown, it didn't make sense to me.
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Post by junebuggyz on May 1, 2014 17:20:10 GMT -5
I've always been a fan of Sig, and yes, everyone has their flaws, but it does seem that as far as moving toward the captain's chair, Sig sometimes seems to wait for Edgar to fail. Ex the hernia issue. I doubt that Edgar did that intentionally so he'd be able to go home. Plus Edgar wanted to get it taken care of quickly so he'd be ready for King crab season. I don't know how else it could be handled. Unless Edgar did not initially clearly outline the situation to Sig and by the time Sig got to the NW he was already pissed. The way it was shown, it didn't make sense to me. Sig was all "The boat comes first!" No, in this case your brother's health comes first.
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Post by lonesomerhodes on May 12, 2014 4:30:19 GMT -5
I loved this ep! I can not believe that an obvious "filler" ep worked so well.
Three main things struck me.
1) For all the poor-mouthing we have heard from the various captains, it seems like Sig's Dad managed to make a windfall in just one season. I know quotas and such have changed a bit, but the NW has always seemed to max out. Add in the tendering? That family makes bank. Large bank. So do the Colburn's and T/B outfit.
2) The ongoing issue for Edgar, imo, as for sooooo many addicts, is the lack of a ready acknowledgement of what they are and what they did. Edgar was way too quick to interject some minor point against what Sig was describing as Edgar's overall drug sins. To me, this is a very bad sign. Very bad.
For sure, we never saw what type of amends, if Any, Edgar has made. My educated guess, however, is that Edgar has yet to make his amends (Step 9) and actually atone to Sig. I further believe that Sig knows how dangerous such pride is. Hence, he still can't fully trust Edgar, despite the obvious strides being made.
If Edgar has actually made direct amends after a thorough inventory taking and Sig is being like this? My regard for Sig goes super low. Again, given Edgar's lightning quick defensive posture? The odds are pretty high against his having come to real terms.
3) Jake A. seemed to be having a great time on the NW as they were tendering. I don't think I've seen him appear as care-free and easy aboard any vessel.
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Post by crabber on May 13, 2014 9:13:28 GMT -5
We do not know what the conversations has been between Edgar and Sig regarding his recovery/atonement for his past. It has never been shown on tv, and those things should be private. Maybe Sig can never get over all the responsibility he had to take on due to Edgar's lack of support. As for Jake A. - I think he knows he is lucky the NW took him back. I love Jake but he is too emotional, gets upset to easily and needs to mature more before he becomes a captain. Just because he has a license does not mean he is ready at this time to captain a boat. In time, I'm sure Jake A. will be a good captain. Just saw on another site Josh just got his captain's license.
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Post by anitalalouise on May 13, 2014 11:39:49 GMT -5
So, we can never know what happened between Sig and Edgar and it should be private but it's probably Sig's fault? How exactly does that work?
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Post by sciencer on May 13, 2014 17:31:47 GMT -5
And what goes for Jake A goes for Josh. Just because you have your license it doesn't mean you are ready to BE a captain. Jake is a lot closer to it than Josh.
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Post by Maribegood on May 13, 2014 18:47:31 GMT -5
I think there could be some level of Sig punishing Edgar for his past sins, but I also think it is an understandable reaction. Not the correct reaction, not an in any way good for either of them reaction, but understandable. Unless you have dealt with someone you love being an addict, it is hard to fully appreciate the long term damage of addiction. That damage is not repairable just by the addict being able to stop using.
They disappoint you. They use you. They may steal from you. While they are actively using, if their mouth is moving in your direction you can take it to the bank that they are lying to you. You are often lying and covering for them. You may have multiple cycles of this if the addict is on and off the wagon. Once they are stable for a while, the people they hurt are often still stuck in crazy town. Sig's rational mind might be seeing a perfectly sober Edgar, but part of him is still on guard and another part of him is still mad. Sure, he needs to work through it if that is the case, but it isn't as simple as turning a switch in your mind.
I do love me some Edgar, but he may have to meet Sig more than halfway on this. Sig may often have a nasty sharp tongue with Edgar, but it is also pretty clear that when Edgar was at his lowest he had his back and would not kick him to the curb even when his father suggested it. That counts for something.
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Post by seasick on May 13, 2014 23:35:38 GMT -5
And what goes for Jake A goes for Josh. Just because you have your license it doesn't mean you are ready to BE a captain. Jake is a lot closer to it than Josh. Well, Jake might be the better captain, but Josh has one thing that Jake doesn't: A boat. On the NW Sig and Edgar, and possibly also Norm, Mandy and Edgar's son, will be in front of Jake. (The fact that Norm doesn't want to captain it on camera, doesn't mean that he hasn't got off-camera ambitions.) On the other hand, almost everyone here agrees that Josh wants to be on camera, and that he would probably do what the camera crew tells him to. I'm guessing that they want to him to take over the boat, so they can show him continuing his father's legacy. I'd be surprised if he's not captaiing next season or the season thereafter, at least as long as the cameras are filming.
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Post by The Nowegian fan on Sept 2, 2014 17:45:23 GMT -5
Well, as we say in Norwegian: Skål!! Stå på gutta!
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Post by nwfan2014 on Sept 8, 2014 15:27:13 GMT -5
This may be a little off-topic, but you know what I hear in Sig' voice everytime this subject comes up (and you guys know, I love Sig to pieces so I'm not really criticizing him)? Resentment, Sig as the eldest son of someone who apparently had no use for anything other than gruffness etc.
As some of you probably know, my 89 yr old maternal grandmother passed away recently after suffering advanced Alzheimer's. She lived with my mom, my step-dad & myself for 6 years while my mom & I with the help of hospice took care of her, she was bed-ridden for the last several months of her life due to a broken hip (she had broken both hips, left hip she broke day after Christmas & the right she broke almost a year to the day later), my mom & I took care of EVERYTHING, changing linens, changing diapers, feeding etc, of course Hospice took some of the burden off of us, but on the days that the nurse's aide didn't come (which was Wed, Fri & week-ends) we had to do the changing etc. For 6 years, whenever mom & my step-dad would go somewhere, guess who got left behind? yep, I got to 'baby-sit'
Whenever I talk to my dad on the phone, I hear the exact same tone in his voice, my paternal grandmother is not in good health either, my dad has been commuting between Clear Lake & East Tx every week, his brother, who lives with my grandmother in East Tx, is absolutely no help from what I hear, so dad's been doing everything & trust me, as some one who has been down the road he's now traveling, it's no fun. My uncle had a burst appendix several years back, had surgery & has never been the same since then, he has no insurance, can't work, too stubborn to go to a dr to get seen (he went to one once who put him on anti-depressants which made a world of difference, he was active, he interacted with people, but the meds made him gain weight like no one's business so he quit them. He sleeps all day every day.
The point to all this is, I can see where Sig may have unresolved resentment from the fact his dad expected so much from him, & don't get me wrong, those boys loved their dad no question, but I think Severre did more harm than good when it comes to the more emotional side, as in I have a feeling that the only emotion those boys ever saw from him was anger.
sorry if this doesn't make much sense, I'm in pain & so I'm kind of out of it
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Post by crabber on Sept 9, 2014 13:02:36 GMT -5
nwfan2014-Sorry for the passing of your grandmother. Most people don't realize the responsibility involved in caring for an ill relative until they have to do it. I have tons of respect for people like you. Try to take some time for yourself. I don't know if the relationship between Sig and Edgar will ever change. I think Sig appreciates Edgar's skills as a deck boss/engineer and knows he could never run the boat without him. However, he just can't seem to get over the past. I know he put up with a lot of crap from Edgar and there has been hurt feelings and resentment on both ends. Sig needs to lighten up on Edgar because if Edgar ever decides to buy a boat like Sig once suggested, Sig would really be screwed. Jake A. is good but he is not Edgar when it comes to running a deck and fixing things. As for Jake A. vs Josh H. with their captains license, I honestly think if Josh can get past the cameras and tv stuff, he might make a better captain than Jake A. He is less emotional and less inclined to freak out and pick fights than Jake A. Both have a lot of maturing to do before they can captain a boat.
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Post by nwfan2014 on Sept 9, 2014 13:22:32 GMT -5
Thank you for your kind words Crabber, they mean alot Even though we were totally prepared for what was coming, it still was a shock, I wouldn't change anything about the past 6 years excepting I wish it had been Hospice that had found her that morning, her Nurse's aide was scheduled to come that day & I wish it had been her that had discovered her instead of my mother. My mother for weeks after had trouble sleeping due to it, it's better now, & we know she's in a better place, but still.. Yeah, I agree, Jake A. has some growing up to do if he's going to captain a boat, but then again, when things go pear-shaped out there, Sig has a bad habit of freaking out too (and I'm not talking about panic type freaking, I mean the screaming type freaking, God it's a wonder the camera guy can still hear anything at the end of a season on the NW ha ha , I'd be deaf before the first trip was even finished & I can't hardly hear for squat now )soo maybe Jake A. isn't so different, though he DOES need a thicker skin & not take everything so personally as he is wont to do Someone here mentioned the Blue Crab knock down drag out between Sig & Edgar, these guys don't talk to each other AT ALL during the off season??? I mean, I guess I can kind of see why, they see so much of each other during the season itself it's like "ahh off season, time off, don't wanna see your ugly mug again for a while" type deal but damn, they probably live like 2 blocks away from each other & they don't talk?? what's up there?
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Post by Maribegood on Sept 9, 2014 21:45:47 GMT -5
I don't think it is a question of getting and running another boat. The question is about getting and securing quota. It is very expensive to buy outright, I don't think a lot of quota owner are selling. It is too lucrative to simply hang on to it and lease it by season. Unfortunately leasing isn't nearly as profitable for the boats doing the actual fishing.
Kid of immigrants talking here. As the oldest son in an immigrant family, Sig had pressures and expectations on him that Edgar didn't as.a younger son. You couple that with Edgar's issues, and I am sure Sig has some resentments he sometimes can't keep on a leash. There had to have been risks he took to keep Edgar relatively safe that he would never have taken under other circumstances. Those things are hard to get over. I do so love Edgar but it can understand why Sig can fly off the handle with him at times. He probably spent a lot of time and energy keeping his head when things went to hell with Edgar. Now Edgar is well and Sig has years of responses he needs to unlearn.
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Post by bentwillow on Sept 10, 2014 8:57:25 GMT -5
Getting over the addiction of a family member is not an easy thing. No one here knows what Sig went through when Edgar was at his worst. I'm sure Sig is always waiting for the other shoe to drop - for Edgar to fall off of the wagon. It will take *years* of sobriety before Sig will be able to trust Edgar again, I'm sure.
We all can sit back and appreciate how well Edgar is doing. We didn't have to deal with his antics when he was using. The wounds Sig has acquired during Edgar's addiction are still open It will take more than a few years for those wounds to heal.
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Post by anitalalouise on Sept 10, 2014 10:24:22 GMT -5
The thing that Sig freaked out about with the blue crab was that Edgar never even contacted Sig to figure out what he needed to do in order to have the boat and licenses ready for fishing - he just assumed that Sig would do all that work, which Sig being who he is, did - but Sig also resented it. It's hard to be the reliable one all the time. Sometimes you want badly NOT to do all the work that someone else should be doing, but ultimately that would have been bad for the boat, so he did it. But he didn't like it.
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Post by crabber on Sept 10, 2014 11:11:12 GMT -5
nwfan2014-Having lost both my parents I can say no matter how sick they are you are never prepared for when they pass. It is still a shock.
In regards to the Sig and Edgar thing-Sig is a control freak. Maybe due to the fact that he had to be responsible for everything when Edgar was using. However, on a different note, I do hope they see and speak to each other when not fishing. My best friend's mother and the mother's brother did not talk to each other for 25 years over an argument when my gf's grandmother died. When her mother was dying, my gf called their uncle(against their father's wishes) to let him know. When he got to the hospital she was in a coma and died shortly there after. He boohooed his head off and went on and on about not seeing each other. Life is too short to let stuff like that happen. Yes Edgar can fall off the wagon, but he has been clean and sober for a number of years. Addiction runs in my family(I have cousins who were addicts) so I know and have seen first hand how it affects families. However, Sig needs to lighten up and stop throwing it in Edgar's face when ever he gets mad. Sig could not run that boat without Edgar.
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Post by svtubamom on Sept 11, 2014 8:14:14 GMT -5
nwfan2014, I am sorry about the passing of your grandmother. Alzheimer's is terrible disease. My grandmother knew nothing or anyone for over 13 years. It is so hard on the family.
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